Midwinter Shadows: Reflecting on My Death Card Year
My Death card year, plus next year’s card, and my word(s) of the year.
November and Other Liminal States

Finishing drafts and crying into my PSL.
This is me with a broken heart.
Grief, loss, and and the mess of continuing to live.
The White Cat of Destiny
Content warning: pet loss. This post will only be sent to blog subscribers and not my newsletter mailing list. When I wrote those words for The Wilderness of Girls, what seems like a lifetime ago, I was of course drawing on my own experience with grieving. I don’t know how those words felt to readers, […]
A Journey Through the Ninth House in a Death Card Year

This year promised to be a year of transformation, and boy is it delivering.
Magical Escapades, Personal Journeys, Celestial Transits, Etcetera
First, a little housekeeping: I have finally figured out how to enable subscriber preferences on Mail Chimp! Currently the default mode is that everyone on my mailing list gets everything I ever send out, which means both “newsletter” type things AND my very occasional blog posts. Click HERE and select which topics you’re interested in […]
Joyful Things Because Joy is Resistance (& Boy Have I Got Joyful NEWS)
I have several half finished blogs from post-election written where I tried to gather my thoughts on Everything. But you know what? Other people have already talked about that, and have done so very eloquently. I don’t have much else to add that hasn’t already been said better by someone else…
ABA Winter Institute: My First Official Author Event
I know this is usually a space where I write (hopefully) insightful essays about the human condition that (hopefully) resonate with my readers, but it’s also historically been a bit of a public diary where I try to record the moments in my life I’d very much like to remember and be able to look back on. So please enjoy (or ignore!) this recap of my Very First Professional Appearance As An Author at the ABA Winter Institute in Cincinnati!
Rabbit Hole Round-Up
Here are the interesting things I’ve hyper-focused on over the last few weeks:
Letters from the Island of Ambiguous Loss
Dear Ghost,
I’m writing this letter in my best attempt to exorcise you.